{"id":212,"date":"2010-10-13T05:07:24","date_gmt":"2010-10-13T10:07:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bunnyville.org\/xblkx\/?p=212"},"modified":"2013-11-04T05:07:38","modified_gmt":"2013-11-04T10:07:38","slug":"soulmates-to-strangers","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/xblkx.lkramer.net\/?p=212","title":{"rendered":"Soulmates to strangers"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Never ceases to amaze me that people could be intimate and then hate each other.<\/p>\n<p>The only rational explanation I have for this is that the person you were with hates themself (or more accurate: hates the self), except for the obvious case where abuse is involved.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s going to take some effort to research and write about.<\/p>\n<p>At least one of my friends who really &#8220;gets me&#8221; gave me the DSM-4 for a birthday present!<\/p>\n<p>This thought is almost enough to inspire me to read it and see what scientists and professionals have written on the subject.\u00a0 I know I&#8217;m baffled.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Never ceases to amaze me that people could be intimate and then hate each other. The only rational explanation I have for this is that the person you were with hates themself (or more accurate: hates the self), except for the obvious case where abuse is involved. That&#8217;s going to take some effort to research [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[20],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-212","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-thoughts"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/xblkx.lkramer.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/212","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/xblkx.lkramer.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/xblkx.lkramer.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/xblkx.lkramer.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/xblkx.lkramer.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=212"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/xblkx.lkramer.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/212\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":215,"href":"https:\/\/xblkx.lkramer.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/212\/revisions\/215"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/xblkx.lkramer.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=212"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/xblkx.lkramer.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=212"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/xblkx.lkramer.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=212"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}